Thursday, October 21, 2010
WHY DO GIRLS ALWAYS GIVE IN??
First of all, the title of the post is a generalization. Girls do not always give in, but most of the time they do LOL.
Now some of you probably think am talking in terms of giving into sex or peer pressure but sadly and most unfortunately that is not the case.
The type of 'giving in' am talking about is where a guy and girl have a little spat and then communication ceases for awhile, no more phone call, no more tweets, no more bbm, aim, yahoo messenger, NOTHING. And if you the two people are on some 'Oleku' level the 'no communication' probably lasts for 2 weeks until one of them usually the girl starts to 'THINK' and suddenly she's imagining whether he's ok? Whether she was at fault? Whether she shouldn't just give in and Ping him? Ping the living day lights out of that baggar until he responds lol.
Like for me for example, am a cold cold dude lmao, I can go a month and I won't ping you. Or even think of contacting you, I will literally forget you ever existed. (Got that from my mama) lol I kid I kid.
My point is this though, I was talking to a female friend of mine about that and I believe that the women who actually make the effort to be the first to restore communication are obviously the 'bigger person' in the relationship. And NOPE women are not weak because they finally bow and give in and pick up the phone and call, it actually takes a lot of strength to do that. So to all those lovely women who've realised that nobody ever choked
by swallowing their pride and picked up their phone to call that 'baggar of a dude' to
reconcile. I say to you 'More Grease to your ashy ashy elbows" lol.