Lol blogsville peeps, one more post until we hit 100 and I think the 100th post is going to be Messiah's post. So get ready to see it later in the week. So this post of mine is a follow up to my last post and it involves a funny scenario I came upon.
Now my last post dealt with whether you as a female should tell the girlfriend of a male friend of yours whether or not your male friend is cheating on her. Now lets talk about it from a different perspective. What about a babe who is sleeping with a guy who she thinks is single but happens to be in a relationship. She later finds out that he is in a relationship and she confronts the 'best friend' of the guy who she thought had her back and would let her know if the guy was cheating on her. So before I go on, this story is completely fictional and I shall be one of the characters in this story lol. So 'Mugu' will stand for the girl who was hurt by the cheating dude, Player will stand for the dude who played the 'Mugu' and Azazel will stand for the best friend.
So anywayz Mugu finds out that Player had been lying to her all this while and that player had had a girlfriend all this while right? So Mugu then confronts Azazel and asks Azazel 'How come you never told me that 'Player' had a girlfriend?, Azazel wonders why Mugu would expect him to tell her that 'Player' has a girlfriend? Since when do people voluntarily go up to people and let people know that other people have girlfriends or boyfriends biko nu?? Anywayz Mugu continues with the interrogation and then says to Azazel 'I thought that we were cool, why did you never even tell me that Player had a girlfriend? and was playing me? Azazel tells her that he did not know that she did not know that 'Player' had a girlfriend. Mugu then tells Azazel that she has been sleeping with Player and that she had asked 'Player' if he had a girlfriend and Player had said 'maybe or maybe not'. Azazel then asks Mugu how could he have known that she did not know that 'Player' had a girlfriend afterall it's not like she would be the first or last girl who had slept with a man who was in a relationship or marriage. Mugu then asks the question of the year infact the question of the CENTURY by asking Azazel this lovely question, 'Are you saying that I am a whore? Seeing as Azazel is a lovely sort of guy Azazel responds by saying 'No o me ke say that you are a whore? Impossicant how can you be a whore? (in my head) - Of cause you are a whore, what else could you be? A saint? Idiot
That brings me to the end of this little story so now I proceed to ask this question to my blogsville people.
So obviously this babe does not consider herself a whore, no female likes to be labelled a whore, it's like a taboo word or something. Idk why. Anywayz, can you imagine the 'cheek' of this babe. First of all she says that 'Player' told her that 'maybe or maybe not' he had a girlfriend. So she asked him if he had a girlfriend and Player gave her such an answer, red flags did not go off in her head then?? As in some babes willfully fall into a delusion created by themselves and when everything goes kaput they start looking for people to blame. Can you imagine this babe asking Azazel whether he was saying that she was a whore? No before what are you? Mother Theresa? What do you call such a babe self? Somebody provide me with a name.
In a holy world, husband and wife would be the only people allowed to have sex without it being frowned upon, but seeing as we humans failed to obey that holy rule we have cut slack to include boyfriends and girlfriends into that mix abi. Now when a girl sleeps repeatedly with a guy who is not her 'boyfriend' and later finds out that he did have a girlfriend and then expects you to treat her like 'Mother Theresa' that in my holy opinion is TRIFLING.
Because let us examine this further, she expected Azazel to come let her know that Player had a girlfriend, but why is Azazel obligated to do such a thing? I mean if your sleeping with the guy when he is not your boyfriend, your 'moral compass' is obviously not something to write home about. So what happens if indeed you knew that 'Player' had a girlfriend and I came to tell you and found out that you knew. My view of you would turn negative immediately, and you would feel hella awkward so why exactly would I want to put my lovely self through that much wahala?
27 comments:
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lol abeg free the babe, she is not a whore. Like you said she was finding someone to pour her anger on and unfortunately it was you. wait its fictional right, i mean the story?
The only reason where Azazel should have told her is if indeed you guys were cool. As per yarning, hanging out etc. It's kinda shady to be cool and not say anything. If you weren't then you have no obligation. You are right about "maybe/maybe not" that's a red flag right there that she chose to ignore.
Lol it might be fictional it might not be.
Taynement some girls 'recruit/befriend' friends of guys that they are shagging with and promote it as a true friendship. It is never a true one.
I don't think she's a whore sha, she just made a mistake. Player did give her red flags she chose to ignore and so she can't blame you. Unless she asked you straight out and you said no.
she is a whore
i abhor casual sex,
its dirty and demeaning,
I feel it
She's Not a whore...dumb yes, but not a whore. She didnt know Player had a girlfriend, that makes her naive
Again, Azazel shouldnt have been chummy with her,making her think he has got her back, if he knows he had a poor opinion of her, that is rather eh 'not upright'. if u dont like somborri's moral standing, act like it, dont go smiling and gisting with the babe, pretending friendship.
And if really Azazel were friends with her, there was nothing wrong in him casually saying during a hangout over a couple of beer '...girly, i really like ur style, u dont mind d fact that player has a girlfriend?'
at the end of the day...you can blame it on the booze
not a whore but not too far from their kingdom.
playa tho is a bigger whore...shame on him
There's no harm in chics trying their luck now Azazel, is there?
Doesn't necessarily make her a whore does it? Na....
She's just a mumu who should have defined the 'sleeping arrangements'
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Lol @ define sleeping arrangements
A whore is a whore no matta the type of car she drives. MI talk am.
Chai Azazel u bad sha. U know its this type of truth that hurts most abi? When you tell someone the truth masked within an obvious lie. U bad sha.
i h8 to be the 3rd party in these situations. it has a way of coming back on ur head. i wouldnt tell. i think
nd on d subject of bn a whore, abeg, wetin, i wldnt call her that. no way
If anyone is asking, "Am I a whore?", this itself is questionable. If she dared to ask it means that she may have already considered the dictionary definition of a "whore" and was only hoping that Azazel would tell her otherwise. In other words, at the point of the questioning she already felt like a whore.
The 3rd party is only an onlooker and it is hard to interfere as an onlooker. I agree with your response to Taynement, "...some girls 'recruit/befriend' friends of guys that they are shagging with and promote it as a true friendship. It is never a true one..."
Interesting blog you guys have here...a combination of such different opinions.
lol@ her asking if you think she's a whore...who does that? And her hearing something like "maybe and maybe not" from a guy and still sleeping with him....wetin be the babe history? I ain't calling her no names tho'
that single action does not make her a whore...
Okay? How is she a whore and why couldn't u tell her if u really considered her a friend?
Funny cos I hv been in both positions -Azazel's and Mugu's (cringes).
Now i didn't sleep with 'player' (chuckles) cos quite frankly, I was NEVER interested in the 1st place,....couldn't even picture that with him (barfs) But i was definitely enjoying the attention,.....that was until dude turned major stalker/psycho.
A yr or so later, I find out from a mutual friend that dude was MARRIED with a kid but his wife and kid were back in naija.
I wasn't mad per se, I mean afterall it's not like we had anything but I was disappointed in my so called friend.
How d hell can a "friend" not tell me such a thing? What if I really liked d guy?
But then on d same token, I can understand y some folks choose not to speak on issues like so.
I was once an Azazel.
A friend of mine was proudly patrolling around town, calling some loser man her boyfriend when everyone and their mama knew homeboy's wife was back in naija.
Being the good friend that I was, I let d chick in on it and to my utmost surprise, d babe started acting all types of weird 2wards me.
But then again, what do u expect from women?
When u tell 'em the truth, they either label u a 'hater"(chuckles) or claim jealousy.
Needless 2 say, the man's wife later came here to visit and she(my then friend) became a laughing stock among Nigerians for that time being.
Funniest part of this whole thing was d guy involved.
America is indeed a great equalizer. Someone that would have been a spare parts seller bk in Onitsha is now an American play boy. LWKMD!
Olurun maje!
All these women who marry "American" husbands but yet they remain in naija, I really feel bad for them because the shit most of these men get up to over here is quite baffling.
If these women knew better, they would test those swines for STDs whenever they come bk home for hols before sleeping with them.
But then again I ain't no captain save 'em. I just giggle and keep it pushing..that is unless I really care abt u.
If I care abt u enough and truly consider u a friend, best believe I would tell u d truth...whether u like it or accept it or not cos I expect the same from my true friends. I may not want to hear it at that point in time but be rest assured I will thank u for it later.
Thanks Jaycee
Rayo good assessment.
Sugarking bros I dey try o.
But remember say this be fiction.
Hence why i said that u have to understand what my own definition is of friendship..
A lot of people consider me their very good friends and they come to me with their problems if they have one, but u would never see me go back to those people if I have problems. Just because a person claims me as a friend does not mean i am obligated to be one. Just as Jaycee pointed out, a lot of babes go recruit and I use that word because that is what it is. They 'recruit' guys who are close to the guys that they are talking to or in a relationship with under the veil of friendship. it is up to the guy being recruited to understand wassap and not be a mugu. Because @ the end of the day the girl is just using u to keep tabs on the other dude.
It is important to always remember the status quo in such situations.
@ Dith
Hence why i said that u have to understand what my own definition is of friendship..
A lot of people consider me their very good friends and they come to me with their problems if they have one, but u would never see me go back to those people if I have problems. Just because a person claims me as a friend does not mean i am obligated to be one. Just as Jaycee pointed out, a lot of babes go recruit and I use that word because that is what it is. They 'recruit' guys who are close to the guys that they are talking to or in a relationship with under the veil of friendship. it is up to the guy being recruited to understand wassap and not be a mugu. Because @ the end of the day the girl is just using u to keep tabs on the other dude.
It is important to always remember the status quo in such situations.
Dude whats up? how have you been?
hoo haa, i would not tell if i were in azazel's shoes..if someone tells you maybe, maybe not and you still go ahead you are dumb,
it is all the devils fault
I've considered your question and now it's time to ask mine: Who isn't a whore? Just because they never committed the "acts of whoring" doesn't mean they fantasize about it. Even nuns think of dick (or even pussy) every now and then, they just do a good job of controlling that urge.
I dey trybes..
Long time no talk bro
You know what would really suck? If most of the people replying on here claimed to be christian. Defending premarital sex. tsk tsk
Anywho back to the topic. I find this totally funny cause it something I do. As soon as am with a guy I slowly befriend all his close friends and 8 out of 10 times they tell me when my guy is trifling. Its a good strategy.
The heffer in this story was dumb though. If a guy says maybe or maybe not to such a question I suggest you move to the enxt guy unless you are totally fine with being a mistress.
Love, Otas
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