tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post9090240576242253..comments2023-10-25T05:55:17.507-07:00Comments on TRUTH DON DIE.: ABORTION/SEX EDAzazelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18312052192443976075noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-26993447448454034562011-11-10T14:17:44.953-08:002011-11-10T14:17:44.953-08:00Messiah, u are too much. Pls how can I get in cont...Messiah, u are too much. Pls how can I get in contact with u? +2348060907647 is my number.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-91557530610543398972011-07-05T19:50:03.435-07:002011-07-05T19:50:03.435-07:00@Anonymous, my claims are simple. Abortion is murd...@Anonymous, my claims are simple. Abortion is murder of an innocent human being. I've given my reasons, and I've also given a clear cut sex-ed to help prevent it. If you read the blog thouroughly, you'd notice I said "sex is a dangerous act" and compared it to driving. You can be a safe driver all your life and still get involved in an accident, same with sex: You can have safe sex all your life and still find yourself at an unfortunate situation (although it is highly unlikely, it is still possible). <br /><br />It's the action after the accident that counts; do you kill an innocent life because you made an error? Or do you finally realize that it's not the baby's fault that it's alive, and have some fucking respect for human life by at least giving the baby a chance to be born? Of course, this is a sensitive topic, after all it's about whether or not to kill an innocent life and if you are disappointed at the fact that I stand for protecting the innocent, then you can kiss my ass.<br /><br />And as for the "hogwash," about half a dozen friends and I use that brand and have found it to be very effective for making us single and baby-mama-drama free. I just decided to use that couple because they've probably fucked hundreds of times and no condoms have been leaked. In my book, they are the prime example of how safe-sex should be done.The Messiahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00465632870860890488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-68327665464497890652011-06-28T09:44:47.479-07:002011-06-28T09:44:47.479-07:00And yeah, that hogwash about 'the almighty'...And yeah, that hogwash about 'the almighty' trojan condom. do you really want to back the claim that trojan is 100% safeproof or it would never break by using ONE couple you happen to know. POOR!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-83696436320226395342011-06-28T09:37:40.576-07:002011-06-28T09:37:40.576-07:00BS!!!
First time reading this blog and I am impres...BS!!!<br />First time reading this blog and I am impressed by how openminded and refreshing this blog is, as for this post, i am dissapointed. <br />So easy for you to condemn (forgive me but thats what comes across)<br />Do you think people that do abortions dont know all this? do you think they enjoy it? do you know the emotional trauma that comes with it?<br />I will always be pro-choice, not because of all the facts you stated but because i believe everything falls down to circumstance.<br />You never know the situation the person is in, not everything is black and white and please there are situations in this life worse than rape. <br />I can give so many examples but that is not my intent today.<br />Ok fine, practice safe sex,blah blah blah, what of cases where the condom breaks and they have to use plan B but it doesnt work after all it is not 100% safe.<br />I know a girl in my school, she was on the birth control pill, she had a tooth infection and had to take antibiotics which decreased the effectiveness of her pills and she got pregnant, even smoking can reduce the effectiveness as well. is she to be judged. <br />The ONLY way of preventing pregnancy 100% is abstinence but we all know thats not going to happen. <br />I wont deny there are a few 'bad eggs' that go through abortion every other day due to selfishness, ignorance or they really just dnt care but always remember there are others are forced to.<br />A friend of mine (who just recently went through this ordeal) showed me this post, she has been torn apart for weeks and stumbled upon this through the blog awards link, obviously reading this was a major setback for her.<br />I hope i dnt come out as being harsh, just angry my friend had to read this. You are definitely allowed to have your own opinion and it is your blog but please please this is a very sensitive topic, it should be written with more sensitivity.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-59042800891794557292011-06-26T14:51:50.656-07:002011-06-26T14:51:50.656-07:00By Segun Durowaiye
‘My husband must not know!’
...By Segun Durowaiye <br /><br />‘My husband must not know!’ <br /><br />There was definitely no way Dapo Olumuyiwa could turn down the offer to travel to Abuja. The company he worked promised to elevate him to the executive level after he must have finished the seven-month Industrial Relations course in the Federal Capital Territory. <br />“Man must survive,” is a popular saying and makes much sense. He thought about his beloved wife, Caroline; and his lovely kid and knew he would surely miss them. It was a touching and painful emotion that eventful day Dapo parted with his family and flew to Abuja. The couple had been married for about five years and were together, come rain or shine. There was no reason for separation at all.<br />Then the count down began. One week gone, two weeks and gradually, one month rolled by. They kept in touch through phone calls on regular basis. Surprisingly, the weakness of the flesh sets in and Caroline was feeling really horny. Exactly three months later, Caroline met an old school mate of hers, Banji, who was a widower. And one thing led to another; before one could say ‘Carol’ she was pregnant for Banji. <br />Caroline knew she was in big trouble because her husband must not know! It was the fifth month already and Dapo would soon turn up and all hell’s fury would be let loose if he discovered that his loving wife was pregnant. Pregnant for whom?<br />Caroline decided to abort the pregnancy quickly. She reasoned that she must terminate the pregnancy in a hospital far from their neighbourhood, just to be on the safe side.<br />She finally located Springs Hospital and made up her mind to do the abortion there. Unfortunately, it happened that the doctor she met at Springs Hospital was the best man during her wedding ceremony many years back and a friend to her husband. Confused, forlorn, worried and deeply agitated, she confessed to the doctor and begged him in tears not to tell her husband the sordid secret. She went on her knees, with painful tears streaming down her face and pleaded that the devil actually took her for a ride, hence she found herself in this mess. She swore that she’d commit suicide if her husband should get to know. Doctor Donald promised not to divulge the secret but told her he wouldn’t do the abortion. Caroline had to do the abortion elsewhere at a great risk to her life. Till this day, the memory of her betrayal haunted her like a fearful ghost, as she couldn’t conceive again since her womb had been destroyed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-1057322734442122722011-06-22T20:29:10.935-07:002011-06-22T20:29:10.935-07:00@Realist, masturbation isn't murder because sp...@Realist, masturbation isn't murder because sperm isn't human. If I shelter sperm for 9 months, feed it and keep it in humane conditions it wouldn't grow and evolve all by itself to be a bouncing baby at the end of the period. However, that's not the case for fetus. Because a fetus is human (at it's earliest stage) and thus, killing it would be considered as murder. So in otherwords, think of sperm as oxygen and the egg as hydrogen, and an embryo as water. Whether it's a drop, or an ocean it's is still water. Thanks for the warm welcome bro.<br /><br />@Anonymous, thanks for the correction about hysterectomies. And your show of statistics seems to be an effort to pseudospeciate embryo. If I'm correct in this assumption, then to counter this argument, I only have to reference you to my example of comparing a 24year old to a 24 week old- one has had way more developments than the other, yet they are both considered as human because human life is evolutionary and starts the moment sperm and egg unite to form embryo.The Messiahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00465632870860890488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-8381726703458919182011-06-22T19:51:39.116-07:002011-06-22T19:51:39.116-07:00There's no heartbeat at conception. Gastrulati...There's no heartbeat at conception. Gastrulation(the beginning of embryonic development) happens around week 2. The heart, among other organs, doesn't develop until the embryo goes into fetal stage which is around week 9. The fetus can't feel pain until the third trimester supposedly- how you would know that, i have no clue. Viability doesn't reach 30% until approximately week 23. Not putting emphasis one way or the other, just stating medical facts.<br /><br />Hysterectomies are not a form of birth control and will not be performed unless there is a medical need.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-30597642863193823162011-06-22T19:39:59.779-07:002011-06-22T19:39:59.779-07:00So is masturbation murder? I mean the sperm leads ...So is masturbation murder? I mean the sperm leads to the embryo. You have to draw the line somewhere. And what is the difference in drawing it at conception and drawing it after the first or second trimester?<br /><br />But like Frank Ocean says "I believe a woman's dimples gives her the right to choose, but baby please dont abort" Idk what dimples has to do with anything but i agree with the sentiment in that line. But i understand your argument, but i feel hypocritical having an "opinion" on the issue because i will never be in that position. So i leave it up to the woman to choose.<br /><br />Love the "more subliminal messages than the illuminatti and Disney" hahaha classic.<br /><br />Nice way to come back man.Realisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00598415929011917118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-43785754889213364922011-06-22T13:52:34.862-07:002011-06-22T13:52:34.862-07:00i really dont want to take a stand on this sha but...i really dont want to take a stand on this sha but i agree that people should have sex responsibly....glad to have u backSisi Yemmiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15350113579849499656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-74337549888158972582011-06-22T08:39:31.629-07:002011-06-22T08:39:31.629-07:00This is quite a sensitive topic, especially when y...This is quite a sensitive topic, especially when you have to consider that there are other circumstances that can lead to unwanted pregnancy other than "irresponsible sex". However, I am with you on saying no to abortion except for health/medical reasons. From the moment of conception, a life (like all of us walking on earth) with a heartbeat is formed, and deserves a chance to live.Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13202972020876371306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-7974198055552481762011-06-21T22:55:09.783-07:002011-06-21T22:55:09.783-07:00Well, incest falls under rape unless it was desire...Well, incest falls under rape unless it was desired so I figured. Don't get me wrong, I can imagine carrying a rape baby is a painful experience, but my point is why victimize the innocent child simply because you have been victimized. Like I said, the baby didn't ask for it either, just like you didn't ask to be raped. It somehow continues the evil cycle; you were raped so therefore you killed your child. This is a scenario where doing the right thing is the most painful thing to do.The Messiahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00465632870860890488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-77328578759782295112011-06-21T22:43:41.380-07:002011-06-21T22:43:41.380-07:00I noticed u only talked about the baby conceived t...I noticed u only talked about the baby conceived through rape, what about one conceived through incest? Fortunately, someone can't rape you and make u pregnant so u have mouth to talk about carrying a rape baby to term.NaijaScorpiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15375583469985472050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-68815605759982406262011-06-21T22:39:56.799-07:002011-06-21T22:39:56.799-07:00Actually, "pro-life" doesn't necessa...Actually, "pro-life" doesn't necessarily stand for ALL human life, it's just a term coined by the anti-abortionists to protect the lives of the unborn. So like I said capital punishment and protection of innocents aren't contradictory, because pro-life only covers the baby aspect not the criminals. Furthermore, we all know that giving women w/o great sex ed a choice to kill their unborn babies will definitely lead to more abortions (Look at the picture I posted on the thread). This is just gonna cause a genocide against innocent babies, because they didn't practice safe sex. We live in the 2011, there are dozens of contraceptives out there, yet unwanted pregnancies and barbaric murder of fetus is ever so present in our world today. No wonder Twain called man the lowest creature.<br /><br />As for your argument about it's your body, that's fine. Do what you want with your body, as long as it doesn't affect innocent lives, simple.<br /><br />And yeah, that's why I added the Sex Ed. I believe if folks were more proactive about safe fucking, this world would be less populated with less murder cases. Thanks for your 2 cents.The Messiahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00465632870860890488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-6157702885982813222011-06-21T22:24:07.250-07:002011-06-21T22:24:07.250-07:00Hmmm...I can't say I agree with your pro-life/...Hmmm...I can't say I agree with your pro-life/pro-choice. For one, pro-life means the respect for the protection of ALL human life not just "innocent embryos and fetuses". So no matter how you slice it, being against capital punishment is a qualifier for calling yourself "pro-life" Similarly, being Pro-Choice doesn't (necessarily) mean pro-abortion. I am pro-choice, meaning i believe in a woman's right to have a choice. That doesn't mean that i think every woman should run out and terminate every unwanted pregnancy she has- especially if it's due to her own carelessness. In my opinion, abortion is not and should not be used as regular birth control. What it essentially means is what you do is your business and that i have no right to tell you what to do with your body and you have no right to tell me what to do with mine.<br /><br />As for the rest, i'm with you 100% about being educated and having responsible bedroom romps lol Especially about women carrying their own protection if they are sexually active. If you're too shamed/embarrassed/whatever to have your own protection AND have the discussion about your status, then you aren't mature enough to be having sex IMHO.LadyNgohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00875332361921132497noreply@blogger.com