tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post5084800313013664124..comments2023-10-25T05:55:17.507-07:00Comments on TRUTH DON DIE.: Sub Standard WomanAzazelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18312052192443976075noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-89679006213242724532013-01-30T22:05:37.438-08:002013-01-30T22:05:37.438-08:00http://aeioio.com/social/blogs/viewstory/29004
htt...http://aeioio.com/social/blogs/viewstory/29004<br />http://amuntai.16mb.com/index.php?p=blogs/viewstory/5704<br />http://archive.remdublin.com/blog/xmyshang/2013/01/28/you-can-take-nine-photos-one-press-shutter-button<br />http://www.bloglog.com/blog/xmyshang6/126030/the-technology-in-question-m-a-r-c-b-y-m-a-r-c-j-a-c-o-b-s-is-wi-fi<br />http://www.acdating.net/index.php?do=/blog/77202/payg-phones-with-no-hassles/<br />http://sns.cam111.com/blogs/entry/After-subscribing<br />http://www.chumclubs.com/blog/30651/having-too-many-spyware-remover-039-s-or-running-on-your-system-actually-co/<br />http://nen360.nenonline.org/blog/life-issues-pt-3-attitude-gratitude<br />http://developinglinks.com/index.php?do=/blog/135536/the-on-tory-burch-riding-boots-foot-navigation-is-a-great-additional-featur/<br />http://www.blurpalicious.com/xmyshang/mobile-phones-that-double-up-as-digital-cameras-are-not-that-uncommon-any-more<br />http://xmyishang.exblog.jp/17231354<br />http://17951501.at.webry.info/201301/article_36.html<br />http://sns.cam111.com/blogs/entry/There-are-umpteen-options-available-to-the-residents-of-UK-when-it-comes-to-mobile-connectivity<br />http://www.altasbaixarias.baumgarten.cnt.br/jcow/blogs/viewstory/87668<br />http://sns.cam111.com/blogs/entry/-The-inventors-of-the-Shifting-Calories-method-market-such-a-diet-under-the-name-Fat-Loss-4-Idiots<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-41013766675209302132011-01-19T09:19:10.134-08:002011-01-19T09:19:10.134-08:00a lot of this boils down to choice. Nowadays, a lo...a lot of this boils down to choice. Nowadays, a lot of people can choose to live however they can (not want).Anya Poshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10847500731838213016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-72972057998374973702010-11-30T13:33:56.260-08:002010-11-30T13:33:56.260-08:00@Stand tall activist I don't think I agree. If...@Stand tall activist I don't think I agree. If a woman who's getting beaten stays in a relationship, most times I feel no pity unless she's Islamic or in a third world country. If you live in America, then no, i feel no pity for you but thank you<br /><br />@Sasha you were a feminist before you got saved? How so?<br /><br />I love and appreciate every single one of your postsVanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18248520703568351298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-82066817337610346202010-11-30T00:02:09.679-08:002010-11-30T00:02:09.679-08:00And I love this post!And I love this post!The Activisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10208721217617791119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-26036999741880558942010-11-30T00:01:49.876-08:002010-11-30T00:01:49.876-08:00Feminism might be a choice, meaning it is your cho...Feminism might be a choice, meaning it is your choice to advocate for others but when you speak of women's human rights and what feminism is trying to do, then it becomes a duty. Take for instance I can not say it is a choice to for a woman that married an abuser to stay in that marriage cuzs it is a choice. I can not say it is a choice for some parents to deny their girl child an education or to marry her out at 13. When you face trying to make women's rights respected and recognised, it is more of a duty.<br /><br />My hubby cooks more than I do and it is because he does not hold on to the societal cabbage of what a woman's role is and all. Many women are labouring their lives away all because their partners have refused to be understanding and share roles.<br /><br />@ 2cute4u: that is the type of men to run from. If he goes out drinking, you cannot say where have you being or if is doing what he likes, you can not ask him. Where did he get that definition of 'submissiveness' from.<br /><br />@ Naijalines: many women are in that categories, and most time the educated ones even. You will hear their husbands constantly telling them it is their role and the society encouraging them to multi-task. WTF!The Activisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10208721217617791119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-4694308102393323702010-11-27T10:20:45.031-08:002010-11-27T10:20:45.031-08:00WHO THE HELL WROTE 'HOW TO BE A GOOD HOUSEWIFE...WHO THE HELL WROTE 'HOW TO BE A GOOD HOUSEWIFE?....IS HE/SHE FUCKING SERIOUS?....DAMN! ...am a housewife & run my home the way i like & want, which works WELL for me!<br /><br />As for the cooking.....i find the easiest way out by preparing simple dishes, which made my hubby to call me an average cook.... I DON'T CARE!....as long as it's EATABLE!... LOL...i usually give kudos to women who spend half of the day in kitchen cooking & experimenting with dishes....told hubby if he wants anything Continental he knows which restaurant to visit!<br /><br />Point of correction; HOUSE-WIVING IS A VERY STRESSFUL & TIME CONSUMING WORK WHICH GOES UNAPPRECIATED & UNREWARDED!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-62315747896176509652010-11-27T10:03:45.454-08:002010-11-27T10:03:45.454-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-72391920019744857602010-11-14T22:53:55.727-08:002010-11-14T22:53:55.727-08:00I'm so digging this post. You read my mind. Ar...I'm so digging this post. You read my mind. Are you a witch or seer:)<br /><br />Haha @ please kill me. That was priceless. Yeah the crap that some people spew is just so arrrghhh. I literally feel like slapping some sense into them. Don't "preach" foolish ideologies. It's not like me not knowing how to cook or whatever will prevent Jesus's return. Smcheew. My husband has hands too. All i ask for is use logic and reason. I'm still yet to watch Mona Lisa Smile in its entirety. Be thankful for a guy not raping me? Kai, some people are just loco. Yup one of the beauties of feminism is that it's about choice. The 1950s textbook = shoot me right now...Shadenonconformhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09684872244505806973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-75395789052003504172010-11-14T04:24:53.833-08:002010-11-14T04:24:53.833-08:00Hi
In my other life, i was feminist; before i got ...Hi<br />In my other life, i was feminist; before i got saved, i mean.<br /><br />Sex does begin in the kitchen, with your man regaling you with tales and still masculine enough to not feel bad cos he is cooking for you.<br /><br />I will make my own rules when i am married.<br />All that is in the bible is that the woman should submit to her husband, it does not say love, but me i am adding love sha!<br /><br />I am a virtuous woman already, we will work things out.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13049764607472498499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-5744631115397843812010-11-13T14:10:18.239-08:002010-11-13T14:10:18.239-08:00lol nice post. its perfectly fine if my wife cant ...lol nice post. its perfectly fine if my wife cant cook, i have absolutely no prob flingin my suit into the cushion and jumping in the kitchen. Im a damn good cook, and i enjoy it. its like an art to me, i show off my skillz. n on the occasion that i just dont have the energy, (cos truth b told it is exhaustin)iya basira will do just fine. <br />and, im not marrying no housewife. do ppl still do that? unless their shitty rich, i think not.eEl-Divinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03708892438653400699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-38650618229554359792010-11-12T18:11:44.854-08:002010-11-12T18:11:44.854-08:00Really Interesting post though..
And I agree with ...Really Interesting post though..<br />And I agree with your sentiments..Azazelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18312052192443976075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-58463108905706255682010-11-09T16:49:30.429-08:002010-11-09T16:49:30.429-08:00i know this is like such a serious post and all bu...i know this is like such a serious post and all but my eyes wandered towards the list of countires and i saw kenya and i just bust out laughing.i dont know why.<br /><br />anyway sha, i never had this problem at home cos my dad travelled a lot so whenever he came home my mum cooked cos the man was always jetlagged plus my mum works less than my dad so i guess it was convenient for her to do all the cooking, seeing that she was a teacher and had short hours while my dad ran his company/<br /><br />it worked out i guess.<br />i think i would love a cook, whether im a housewife or not if we can afford it.just saying.<br /><br />thankful that my husband doesnt abuse me?!DEAD.<br />girls kill me.<br />he should try that one now.leggyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989088139010700349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-15510873959160720302010-11-09T14:53:23.501-08:002010-11-09T14:53:23.501-08:00@Myne it is about choices and I was astounded when...@Myne it is about choices and I was astounded when she said be thankful for not being raped like wtf?Vanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18248520703568351298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-87077804060732930092010-11-09T14:49:59.209-08:002010-11-09T14:49:59.209-08:00I have always thought that feminism is all about c...I have always thought that feminism is all about choices. Let every woman make their own choice and quit trying to push some out-moded roles down all our throats. Give thanks for what!? Pschewww...Mynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-16979272409890439682010-11-09T14:49:22.759-08:002010-11-09T14:49:22.759-08:00@Onose I would love a copy of their presentation
...@Onose I would love a copy of their presentation<br /><br />@Realist As a man you realize cooking is stressful and time consuming idk why some other idiots think I would be honored to cook for them and do it joyfully<br /><br />@2cute4u views shouldn't differ,t he only view that counts is the woman's own but I dare someone to ask me to be submissive<br /><br />@naijalines your friend is apparently superwoman<br /><br />MsB thank you.Vanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18248520703568351298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-29249603399818177542010-11-09T13:41:55.230-08:002010-11-09T13:41:55.230-08:00Very fair post
If all that I am is being your hou...Very fair post <br />If all that I am is being your house-wife then yes I can easily manage those chores but getting home for 6pm, splitting the bills and putting dinner on the table for 7pm , waking up to make the breakfast before work and cooking all weekend for a man who does same hours and won't lift a finger is another story. <br />Anyway shout-out to those women who manage it well, when I grow I want to be like youMsBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09560074786218687862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-50715314760099392512010-11-09T03:09:19.310-08:002010-11-09T03:09:19.310-08:00It's 'amazing', what some Naija women ...It's 'amazing', what some Naija women would do to keep a man. A former colleague of mine who worked the same hours her husband did - said he would get home, sit down and cross his legs in the living room, waiting for her to get back to serve him dinner. As if this was not bad enough, he demanded fresh stew every day and would not eat anything that's been in the frige/freezer. He also demanded that the food be served in special ceremonial dishes.<br /><br />She was always exhausted and complaining at work - they had two young children and he never lifted a finger. Na force dem dey take marry husband or did someone wire her jaws shut so she could not talk to him?<br /><br />I should be let loose on a man like that. We'd soon know who's the slave!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09467664797856391600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-62759045386044956272010-11-09T03:06:55.692-08:002010-11-09T03:06:55.692-08:00I'm so good at cooking but lord knows I hate f...I'm so good at cooking but lord knows I hate frequenting that part of the house called the kitchen.. <br />I am also not too comfortable with someone invading my kitchen space but I love when my man pitches in and I've always been lucky that way.. <br /><br />Someone told me he can't ever marry me and when I asked why he gave me a simple answer: 'You're not submissive'<br />When I asked for him to explain, he said he didn't want to be questioned about his activities and he needs his freedom of which he knew I'd want an explanation.. <br />It was so funny, Yet annoying..<br />That's men for you(The myopic ones) I mean; but unfortunately, they are more than the relatively good ones.. <br />Views deffer on the role of a woman and discussing it could go on for an infinity..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10301603117549184097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-8281811295864913212010-11-08T18:23:29.330-08:002010-11-08T18:23:29.330-08:00Love this post. I have found myself in a the pecul...Love this post. I have found myself in a the peculiar position for a Nigerian man in that i really do not care if my partner knows how to cook or not. It would be nice, very nice if she could but cooking is not a deal breaker. <br /><br />I grew up in a household where my mom was the breadwinner so the "housewife" type really never appealed to me. But as i am learning to cook in old age, the "housewife" type is getting more and more attractive. Cooking just takes too much timeRealisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00598415929011917118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4147539673409649021.post-63115403766793706212010-11-08T16:59:29.091-08:002010-11-08T16:59:29.091-08:00some classmates of mine did a presentation on this...some classmates of mine did a presentation on this, actually this was just like theirs.niceOnosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13583360257340823538noreply@blogger.com